You are right, whatever opinions may be held by others.
你做得对,别人怎么看不必与日俱增。
That'll put us both in the picture.
这样双方都能了解全面的情况。
but as soon as a the question of prestige arises, as soon as you feel that you and some larger unit will be disgraced if you lose, the most savage combative instincts are aroused.